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We are very different when it comes to sex. While some couples stick to the basic, vanilla sex, others opt to venture into more dangerous territory, hence rough sex.

Rough sex it’s a sexual release where you can show your brute strength and your lust at the same time. This kind of sex is not something most people talk about easily, but yet, it’s something all of us could enjoy if done the right way.

Pain and pleasure are not so different, in that they both release endorphins. Experiencing sexual pleasure releases endorphins in the same way that spanking does. Endorphins are likely to be released amid experiencing pain in order to soothe the mind. When I say “pain”, I don’t mean necessarily something intense. It all depends on what the two of you are up for. You can be tame, or you can get wild!

People who love rough sex get the more sexual high from the pain they experience than the sexual pleasure they feel. It hurts but you like it, and that’s what makes the whole thing so passionate. For those who enjoy it though, an occasional round of rough sex can increase the passion in a long term relationship.

Some women, however, may be unsure how to approach the subject simply because “nice” girls aren’t supposed to like dirty sex encounters.

If you’re not someone who’s into rough sex, bringing all that aggression into something as romantic as vanilla sex could sound alarming, but don’t worry. This will change once you learn the little nuances of passionate rough sex. You’d never know how powerful you feel or how sexually arousing the act can be until you try it.

Most women need more than vanilla sex. They need excitement, passion, heat, kink, and… rough? Yes, girls like rough sex. But…take care, guys, we don’t want this all the time. Every now and then, a good round of rough sex can make us feel alive. Try to act like a sperm donor volunteer. Somehow, being dominated once in a while with aggression turns a girl on.

First of all, rough sex is best enjoyed by women with a partner they trust. Both of you know each other’s limitations and capabilities, and it’s easy to know where to draw the line.

Exploring some out-of-the-box ways to have sex is a great way to keep things new and fresh. If you and your partner are going the way of BDSM, it’s important to come up with a BDSM safeword that either of you can use if you feel that things are going too far.  The safeword must be a word that you would never use during lovemaking, something like “lollipop” or “pineapple”. By saying this safe word, your partner understands that you’ve reached your limit and that you’d like the activity — and the role-playing — to stop.

 So, gentleman’s, let’s start the “how-to” guide on how to dominate your woman. This is The Art Of Rough Sex.

I know that you like to be an alpha man, but let’s start easily, with some gentle domination. Push her against the wall and hold down her wrists. Let your weight against her to create the feeling like you are dominating her body. Grab her breasts and squeeze her ass – “This hot ass of yours is all mine tonight”. After that, run your fingers through her hair and pull gently. Grab her hair so that it forces her to look up at you – “God, I need to be inside of you”

Now, it’s time to be more aggressive. Slap her ass mixing it up – slap, rub it with the palm of your hand, grip it with your hand and then slap it again. Repeat it.”I fucking love your ass”. Then bite her nipples and swirl your tongue around them.

Next step is to go down with your hand and touch her pussy. Play with her clit, while a hand is in her hair, and made her cum. While she is in ecstasy, start to aggressive lick her pussy and insert two fingers into her hot and wet pussy. “Oh, your pussy is so wet! Tastes good.”

Make her taste herself. After you finger her put your finger in her mouth, more fingers to add a bit of choking effect.

That’s the moment that you are waiting for – the BDSM can start! 

It’s time to make her pleasure you. Force her on her knees and put her suck you off. “Get on your knees and suck me”. Right away you are telling her what to do, ordering her around, tell her – “You are a good girl”. She exists for your sexual pleasure. She exists to please you.

Degrade her.

Call her “a dirty little whore”, but always use pronouns in your own language. Say – “You’re my whore.” Always use my and never a. When you call a girl my whore, she feels good about herself. She feels, as all women desire to feel, wanted and desired and owned by a man. When you call her a whore, she feels fungible and lacks a sense of belonging. Instead of saying – “You enjoy fucking, don’t you, you little slut?”, you should say – “You enjoy fucking me, don’t you?”.

Have sex with clothes on. If she’s wearing a dress (ideal), hike up her dress and fuck her like that. If she has pants, get rid of them. Move her panties aside (but don’t take them off!) and screw her like that.

Tie your lover’s hands and legs.

Tie her to the bedpost or hold her hands firmly with your own hands. The helplessness of the situation could turn both of you on because one of you will be in complete control of the other person. You can also start introducing a dildo at this point.

For many kinky lovers, cutting off the oxygen supply to the brain arouses them to an all-time high. But be very careful here, as you could end up hurting your lover while choking or throttling them. Instead of trying to choke your lover, just place your hands gently on your lover’s neck and massage it just until she feels your pressure.

Tread carefully with this section! At any time she says the safe word, stop immediately. Pay attention to her body language and if it appears like she is not enjoying something or starting to hesitate, stop immediately! Do not continue if you have any doubts whatsoever!

Many of these sessions can be physically, but especially mentally exhausting. So please take care of your partner after the rough sex. Make sure she is okay, make sure you did not overstep your boundaries. Now, continue making love in the shower to entice her more.

Hug, kiss, hold, cuddle her and tell her that you love her!

Guest author, Osho Shivo, will be providing us with a more in-depth guide on how you too can experience the joys of tantra!

1) Free Yourself From Negativity

To begin with, you need to clean yourself up to become free from stress, anger, fear, jealousy, anxiety or any other negative emotions. You can’t carry the dirt if you are entering the worship.

This stage should be performed individually. Here are a few tantra technics for doing this, you can pick which one you feel most comfortable doing.

Firstly, try forceful exhalations, focusing on forcing the breath out, and not worrying about inhaling. Another way to let out all the negative emotions out is by shouting, screaming, punching in the air, talking gibberish or whatever else works for you. You may even find putting on music really loud and dancing in a chaotic manner helps you release negative energy. The aim is to do what works best for you until you feel free from negativity.

After all this energetic action, sit quietly or lie down for a few minutes. At the end of this stage, you’ll feel deep relaxation from within.

2) Observe Desires And Go Beyond

It’s important to remember that tantra sex energy is propelled by masculine and feminine energy dynamics, and not by desires. One can let go of desires, just by observing and being with them rather than resisting desires or flowing with them.

Here are some popular techniques to help you let go of your desires:

• Prepare a sacred love temple, using sacred objects like flowers, plants, crystals, bells, stones, beautiful pictures, or anything else that reminds you of the peace.
• Invoke your spiritual guides, offer prayer to anyone you deeply trust, for example, Shiva, Krishna or whoever you worship.
• Put on some music that creates a romantic or sexual vibe, dance together, let one of the partners say stop at any point, and both of you freeze, enjoy the energy moving up the spine, start to dance again after some time, both of you can take turns in calling stop. Such a simple technique can be miraculous in taking you beyond desires.
• Harmonize your breath by one of you sitting on the lap of other, either inhale and exhale together, or one should inhale as the other exhales, taking this in turns.
• Gaze into each other’s eyes, don’t blink as far as possible, gyrate slowly when you feel like it.
• One of my most favorite techniques is to hum. Sit facing each other, holding hands in a cross, inhale deep together and exhale from the mouth while keeping it close in the form of humming sound. Feel the vibrations within your body and well as in your lover’s body.

At the end of this stage, lovers will feel the energy flowing through their palms and fingers.

3) Tantric Touch And Foreplay

As the energy begins to flow through your fingers, you can now play with each other and listen to your bodies. While intimately touching each other, you’ll notice that certain body parts are pulsating with energy, while others carry energy blocks and hence feel dull or even painful.

Let me briefly explain the process to remove such energy blocks. Keep your eyes closed and feel the block and be with it even if it feels irritating, suffocating or painful. Now, the one who is feeling the block should visualize, as if this block itself is breathing in and out.

The other should give a gentle massage in a clockwise and anticlockwise direction. Slowly, the block will begin to melt away. Now visualize the white light entering this space and spreading throughout the body. Very soon you will feel the soothing energy pulsations

At the end of this stage, the female’s breasts will feel the ecstatic pulsations with energy flowing through her nipples. Similar pulsation will be felt at the bottom of the male’s lingam (genitals). This is an utterly ecstatic state, where you become throbbing, pulsating energies.

4) Tantric Intercourse

Now the stage is set for the unification of masculine and feminine energies. As you enter intercourse, feel the rising kundalini energy in the form of throb moving up the spine. Similarly, the penetration of feminine energy is felt through the connection of females breast at the male chest and it awakens the heart chakra.

Resisting temptations to move much thrust only slightly. Remember that tantra is not the hot passionate bed-breaking sex. Enjoy the bliss of energy rotating in loops, throughout the body. Lovers can experience long full-body orgasms during this state.

5) Tantra Samadhi

Once you have merged in orgasm and you’re enjoying the ecstasy, it’s time to let go even further. Lie down along with each other, holding one hand and go in deep relaxation. Enjoy these timeless moments. Orgasm will now expand beyond bodies and the ecstatic experiences of cosmic consciousness will dawn over you. Remember, the stage of relaxation is absolutely necessary, for you to access cosmic intelligence.

The Tantra Transformation

As you come out of tantra samadhi, its bliss will pervade all over you for long hours or even for days. Don’t be shocked, if you observe that you are responding to routine situations with much sexuality awareness and the frustrations of life have given the way to love and compassion.

I have also observed that just one deep tantra experience is enough for harmonizing your life with divine purpose. Hence don’t be surprised with the occurrence of miraculous events, which may become the turning points of your life. The deep tantra experience also causes the transformation in your being and hence may lead to attaining of a divine personality.

Oral sex can be one of the most beautiful expressions of intimacy, desire and love for a partner or lover.

For men and women alike, the act of giving oral sex can actually create sensations throughout her body that will enhance and increase feelings of sexual pleasure. Some women report that they get more aroused from giving oral sex, than from any other kind of foreplay activity.

Let’s face it: it’s incredibly sexy to observe someone else experiencing sexual pleasure. But to get the most enjoyment from offering oral sex to another person, one needs to be exceptionally mindful and present during the act. Whether or not we admit it, if you are giving your partner oral pleasure simply as a means to an end, then you probably won’t enjoy it as much.

Getting into the mindset that you are pleasuring your partner for your stimulation as well can be a real game changer. These simple steps might allow you to both give and receive more pleasure when you are going down on your partner.

1. Ask permission.

Firstly, always ask permission first. You may be in the mood to pleasure your partner, but check in with them first. If your partner isn’t in the mood, then don’t be disappointed. Allowing space in a relationship for either partner to say no without consequence removes many unnecessary relationship barriers regarding sex. Knowing that you both have the freedom to take a rain check creates much more trust and intimacy in your sexual relating than if you react negatively to their “no.”

2. Use your eyes.

Before you even start, look at your partner’s penis or vagina. I love it when clients tell me that they think their partner’s genitalia is beautiful! Have a real, proper look. Notice its contours, size, color, firmness, hairiness. Allow your eyes to take everything in. Does it make you want to smile and giggle? Does it make you more turned on? Whatever arises for you, embrace it. In honoring your partner’s parts with your eyes, you begin to realize the complexities of this amazing part of the body.

3. Use your hands.

Slowly and gently begin to run your fingers over your partner’s genitalia. If your partner is a man, you might try gliding your fingers over the shaft, treating it like a delicate and treasured item. If your partner is a woman, you may begin by gently stroking her thighs and softly moving to the outer labia.

Again, using your sense of touch, soak it all in. Feel it in every possible way you can and notice every sensation beneath the fingertips. Stroke around the whole area: include his/her belly and thighs here, too. Visualize a topless partner. Notice what is happening. Is your partner showing signs of pleasure through breath or movement? And importantly, what is it like for you to notice these things? Does it turn you on?

4. Use your breath.

Changing our breath changes the way we experience things, in all areas of life. Especially when it comes to sex (the tradition of Tantra has long-existed for a reason!). Before you begin going down on your partner, gently blow on and around his penis or her vagina, and the surrounding pubic area. Start further away and slowly get closer and closer. Again, be present and mindful, not only to what is happening for your partner, but what is happening within yourself as well.

5. Use your mouth (duh).

Gently start to use your mouth on his penis or her vagina. Remember that oral sex is all about using both your tongue and your lips. If you are willing to explore the idea of the expansive nature of oral pleasure, then dive in with all parts of your mouth!

But remember to work gently at first! Just a flick of the tongue, or a chaste kiss in the beginning could intensify your partner’s sensations. And for your own benefit, remember to be present to taste, texture, smells, sensations. By now your partner is likely very aroused, and it is highly possible that you are, too. Once you have your mouth on your partner’s genitalia, just explore. Try different approaches such as varying pressure or speed of sucking or licking. Remain aware of his/her responses and use your intuition to keep the “conversation” ongoing.

6. Use your words!

Speaking of conversations, let’s get to the difficult topic of communication during oral sex. So often people struggle to communicate about sex, particularly during sex. But how else will you know if your partner is happy with what is happening? So, in the same way you asked permission initially, now ask your partner if they are enjoying things. You can also ask if they might prefer something different, or if there is any discomfort. Don’t be afraid to gauge your partners pleasure by asking, asking, asking. Most people are very happy to engage with a lover who is so attentive and considerate.

7. Use your brain … yes, your brain!

Many people would believe that for oral to be good, it would have to have the inevitable “grand finale,” but this is not true. Oral sex can end in many different ways. You could move to intercourse, or manual stimulation. If you really wanted to up the ante you could stop before your partner’s climax and let him or her take a turn giving you oral stimulation. You could make a game of this, and see how many turns each of you can take before you explode. Or you could simply lay back and cuddle. Keep an open mind, and remember that sex is always different!

8. Be respectful.

This also sounds a bit obvious, but is one of the most important pieces of advice to keep in mind. If your partner is a man, ensure that you are fully comfortable with whatever arrangement you have with your partner regarding ejaculation BEFORE you start going down on him. If you need him to warn you if he is going to ejaculate so you can change your tactic, then tell him that. If you are comfortable for him to ejaculate in your mouth, tell him that too.

And regardless of the gender of your partner, keep in mind that your needs, as the “giver” need to be taken into account. Respect is a two-way street, so make your needs known: no one is a mind-reader!

9. Keep your wits about you.

This myth that all sexual activity must end in climax often derails people. Expectations are set up and then when they are not met, disappointment ensues. People can feel inadequate that they haven’t had an orgasm, or feel as if they are not doing it right if their partner didn’t have an orgasm. If you remove all the hype around orgasm, you create an environment that facilitates relaxation and enjoyment. Sometimes it is good enough to just feel those amazing sensations without focusing on the goal!

10. Have fun!!

This goes for all sexual activity, but be creative. Loosen up. Light candles if that works for you. Turn on some soft (or loud!) music if that gets you in the mood. There are no right answers. The key is remaining in the moment, and allowing yourself to loosen up and have a great time. After all, that’s what pleasure is all about.

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Why adults prefer to watch porn?

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